THE DAYS AND NIGHTS AND WEEKS

fly away for Mary, like a white-tailed eagle in the sky. So much to do, preparing for a wedding, moving the few things she possesses to her new home, time with friends, then the wedding celebration, and home again … a new home this time. Not so far she would not see her family on occasion, but far enough to be with the man she has studied and talked and dreamed about since the day of their engagement … her Joseph.

Alone together for the first time, candle shadows flickering on the walls, a bit nervous at first … and then she leans into Joseph and he wraps his strong arms around her and they gaze across the quiet space at their unoccupied marriage bed. “This isn’t exactly what I had in mind for our wedding night,” says Joseph, placing his hand gently on Mary’s tummy, ripening with child, “but our waiting will be worth it, right?”

Mary moves her hand to Joseph’s chest, and looking up into his eyes, whispers, “My husband.” Her voice is quiet, tasting the words like a sip of warm tea. And then, “You are strong, my husband, and yet so tender. Loyal to me through all of this and God-fearing, too. My father was right when he agreed to your proposal. And not my father only, but see how Adonai has brought us together. You for me and me for you. And the Lord is with us. It is as it should be. I love you, Joseph son of Jacob. Adonai has asked much from us, but we are part of his amazing plan. I love being here with you now. And yes, you are right. Waiting a little while longer will be worth it.”

MARY LOOKS ACROSS THE ROOM

thinking how this will be a good place to raise their son. Joseph is not wealthy, but he’s not a peasant. He has built this house with a rough stone foundation and mud-bricks made on site. Like most of the houses in Nazareth, it is one level, with room to expand as their family grows. There is a minimum of wood in the roof structure, since wood is expensive, but it is strong, and with just enough slant to let precious rainwater run off into vessels below. It is also a good place to store things and to enjoy warm summer evenings as the stars come out and the moon makes its way across the Galilean sky. In this place, in this moment, in this man’s arms, Mary has never been more at peace.

 

Yet outside all is not “peace on earth,” and how quickly Mary and Joseph will face the first of many circumstances beyond their control.

 

ROME IS THE DOMINANT POWER

and an occupying reality the Jews deal with on a daily basis. Rome is the source of wealth as well as problems in the Jewish state. In addition, political tension is fueled by religious ideas and expectations. Jerusalem and the Temple are a kind of focal point for political and socioeconomic tension that has included the rise of rebel bandits, like Judas the Galilean and The Egyptian.

 

There are not many wealthy people in Nazareth. It’s a one-camel town. Most folk who live here work the surrounding fields, growing grapes, olives and grain. And when Caesar Augustus issues a decree requiring a census of the entire Roman world, the unexpected command hits the tiny village hard. Joseph is required to join others living in Nazareth to register in their hometowns. Because he belongs to the house and lineage of David, for Joseph it is the village of Bethlehem, where it is drier and colder this time of year, known not for its grapes or grain, but as a place where sheep and goats are raised.

 

JOSEPH AND MARY

discuss their options. He suggests she return to her childhood home while he goes away. It will be easier and safer for her. But she is nearing the time when her child will be born. Who knows how long Joseph will be gone? Mary believes they should be together. Back and forth they talk. Mary remains absolute. She has made the journey before. Twice on her own. She is determined to go again. If the child is born while they are away, so be it. She insists on being with Joseph. Finally, he agrees.

 

Plans are made. Joseph borrows a donkey from a neighbor, pledging it’s safe return. Mary packs food and clothes. A caravan passing by seems their best option. Joseph is concerned for her stamina in keeping up with the others. Mary remains resolute. She will be fine.

 

On a chilly winter morning they leave the place Mary had been certain would be their ‘forever home.’ With a lingering look at the door, Mary turns her gaze to Joseph. He shakes his head and sighs. Mary smiles and squeezes his hand reassuringly. “We’ll be back soon,” she says. “Adonai is with us. Everything will be fine.”

 

A short distance away a group of travelers are making their way past Nazareth. Joseph and Mary and the donkey join them. Their long journey begins.

 

IS THERE AN UNEXPECTED JOURNEY IN YOUR LIFE?

 

The death of someone you love. The illusive life dream. Circumstances or situations in life you cannot control. And challenges or obstacles you must overcome on your own. Recognizing the difference between the two is half the battle in finding inner peace. When your Adonai, your Lord, is embedded in your life forever, you can remain steady whatever the long journey you may be on.

 

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” — Isaiah 41:10

 

May Jesus keep us close.